Stay Grounded and Focused
I can't emphasize this enough. Most people who arrive in a new city suddenly find themselves surrounded by new things to do, new people to meet etc. With that comes the temptation to try something new. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, or so they tell me. RESIST. Tell yourself, that you are in a perfectly good relationship and that you shouldn't put yourself in a compromising position. Life shouldn't be an episode of "Sex in the City". That kind of life leaves you depleted and hollow. Before one of you leave, get a set of commitment rings/studs/bracelet - anything. It doesn't have to be flashy but it is a token, a reminder that you carry in your heart, his/her heart. Mean it when you give it to him/her.
脚踏实地、一心一意地恋爱
我不需要再强调这一点的重要性了。大多数刚抵达一个新城市的人会突然发现他们的周围都是新的事情、新的人。这会诱惑人，让人会有尝试新鲜事物的想法。“这山望着那山高”，人们差不多是这样解释给我听的。要抵制住啊！你要告诉你自己，你正处在一份完美的恋情中，也不应该让自己陷入不好的处境。生活不该像《欲望都市》中的某一段情节，因为那种生活会使你渐渐耗尽精力并且变得空虚。在你们要分开之前，留一些信物，比如说戒指、耳钉、项链，什么都可以。不用太华丽的东西，只是一种象征和一种暗示，代表了你把他或她的心放在了你的心里。当你给他或她的时候，把它的意义告诉你的另一半。