Pay Attention To Each Other's Needs For Sleep
Difference in time zone, jet lag, lack of morning coffee - are frequently cited reasons as to why you're especially grouchy. Both partners need to be mindful that people get tired and need rest. When you agree to communicate choose a reasonable timing. Something that you're both comfortable with. 8pm in Hong Kong is 12pm in Britain. That's reasonable. When I was 8 hours ahead of my girl when she was visiting her family in UK, I came up with a table to remind myself of the time in UK, each time she logged on. I shared this with her and as much as possible we talked only when it was reasonable for us to do so.
关心彼此的睡眠需要
时区的不同、时差、或者没有早茶,这些都是经常会引起你特别不高兴的原因。但是,恋情的双方都不能忘记,人是会累的,也是需要休息的。当你们选择聊天时间的时候,应该选一个合理的能让你们都觉得舒服的时间,比如说,香港时间晚上8点是英国时间中午12点,这就很适宜。当我处在比我女朋友早8个小时时区的时候,她正在香港和她的家人在一起。每当她登陆到因特网上,我会拿出一张表来提醒自己香港的当地时间。我把我这样的做法和她一起分享,而且我们只有在对我们彼此来说都合适的时间里聊天。 |