Trust
The most important thing in a relationship is Trust. Trust that your partner will do the right thing. Trust that you will do the right thing. Be aware that pitfalls await for any couple, and that he/she can cheat at any point in time and space because, really at the end of the day, its their choice. What we can do as partners of lovers who are abroad is be the best person
that we can be.

I hope this write up will be of use to all lovers out there living under the tyranny of distance. Trust me on this, LDRs are worth having. There's an old adage that goes, "Absence only makes the heart grow fonder" and the old-fuddy-duddy in me wants to believe in that.

信任彼此
一段恋情中最重要的事情是信任对方。要相信你的爱人所做的是对的，也要相信你所做的是对的。你要认识到，每一对恋人都可能遇到意想不到的问题或困难，他或者她可以在任何时间、任何地方说谎，因为说到底那是他们的选择。我们所能做的就是尽可能地做一个在远方的最好的我们自己。
我希望这些文字将对被距离阻隔的恋人们有所帮助。相信我，长距离的恋爱是值得拥有的。俗话说，“距离产生美”，而守旧的我也相信这个。