What if you broke up with someone, but realize maybe you were perfect together after all. Should you call him and try to get back together?
If you find yourself feeling that way, it's probably a case of what we call "dumper's remorse." Starting over can be tough, so often we end up second-guessing decisions and rewriting the relationship. We forget the reason we broke up. Avoid contact and wait for your common sense to return.
会不会有这种情况,你和某个人分手后突然意识到你们在一起其实是个完美组合?如果是这样,应不应该给他打电话挽回这段感情?
如果会有这种感受,那可能就是我们称之为“赌徒的懊悔”的情况了。分手后开始的日子会很艰难,通常会让我们对自己的决定重新评价,然后结束分手重新在一起。然而我们却忘了我们分手的原因。所以还是要避免和前情人接触,然后你的常识会回来的。
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